North Node in Aries
If your North Node is in Aries, you may often give up your own ideas and needs in order not to get into conflict with others. You may not be brave enough to stick up for yourself and always think, “Forget it, let’s not fight. But this approach will actually make you hold your breath, feel aggrieved, and even feel unfulfilled in life.
This tendency is especially obvious at work. You may be so concerned about other people’s feelings that you lose sight of what you really want. The result is that although you seem to get along well, you are prone to conflicts with your coworkers or supervisors at critical moments. However, once you start to take the initiative to make decisions or stand in a leadership position, people will instead realize that you are decisive, opinionated and trustworthy.
People with the North Node in Aries are actually very suitable for jobs that require quick judgment and clear thinking. For example, careers such as human resources, public relations, mediator, and counselor are very suitable for you. You have a talent for dealing with people, especially when it comes to resolving conflicts and coordinating communication, and you often have a good ability to do so.
When you successfully help a company resolve a crisis, or skillfully ease an awkward atmosphere between colleagues, or recommend the right person to the right position, you will feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. These experiences will make you feel that your efforts are worthwhile.
Although you are naturally willing to cooperate with others, you must also learn to express your true thoughts. In the workplace, being accommodating will make you lose yourself and make others ignore you. That’s why you need to take your time and practice: saying no when you need to say no, and expressing your opinion when you need to express it. This may sound difficult, especially if you don’t like to create conflict, but it’s a very important lesson for you to learn as you grow up.
Overall, people with the North Node in Aries tend to be brave and aggressive in the workplace. They are not afraid of challenges and love to pursue their goals. One thing to keep in mind, however, is that you need to improve your interpersonal skills, especially in handling complex human interactions and mediating conflicts.
In other words, you need to learn to be firm in your stance while not letting others think you’re a difficult person to get along with. Only in this way will you be able to go farther in your career and win the support and respect of more people.
In short, as long as you can balance the relationship between “taking care of others” and “sticking to yourself”, you will be able to shine in the workplace and become a capable and attractive person.