Aries love horoscope this month: Try new ways to warm up your relationship!
As an Aries, I’ve recently become interested in the “love advice” in my horoscope.Especially when I read about the Aries Love Horoscope this month, I was a little excited.Although I know that horoscopes can’t help me make money, if the advice in the horoscopes can really improve my relationship with my girlfriend, then it’s worth a try.
My girlfriend is a Leo and we have been together for two years.Life is usually pretty uneventful, and sometimes it even feels like we’re more like roommates than lovers.So when I read this month’s horoscope, which says “Relationship happiness can be enhanced,” I decided to take a serious look and try something different.
Try the first step: Take the initiative.
Around 7:00 a.m., I swiped my cell phone in a daze and saw a piece of advice: “Aries need to be more proactive in their relationships, and do little things that are unexpected.”At first I thought it was a bit of a stretch, thinking, “Don’t I usually take enough initiative?”But on second thought, maybe I could actually do better.
So I started brainstorming about how I could surprise her.I came up with all sorts of ideas, some of which were even a bit outrageous:
- Write a poem?I wrote something that looked like a shopping list and gave up.
- Make breakfast?I failed to fry an egg last time, so let’s forget it.
- Buying flowers?Sounds corny, but she actually likes it, so I’ll give it a try.
In the end I decided to do two things:
- hide some sticky notes with warm words in the house.
- give her a surprise foot massage (which she loves).
The idea was wonderful, the reality was a little awkward.
I bought some stickers and wrote some funny and sweet words, such as “You are more important than pizza” and “Your smile is so healing”.Then I secretly placed them in places where she would see them – in the computer, on the toothbrush, and even on the cat!
The results …… were less than successful.
The one stuck in the computer disappeared when she turned it on; the one on the toothbrush got soaked and looked like scrap paper; and worst of all, the one stuck on the cat got shredded by him.Only the one taped to the refrigerator survived, and she laughed when she saw it. I’d call that a small success.
A foot massage became an unexpected surprise.
The next night, she came home from work and collapsed on the couch.I saw the right time, picked up the moisturizer ready to give her foot massage.She looked at me a little skeptically at first and asked, “Did you do something wrong?”
I explained as I pressed and she slowly relaxed.By the fifth minute, she finally said, “Well …… this is actually quite comfortable.”It wasn’t long before she actually fell asleep, and even I didn’t react.When I came back to my senses, I realized that my cat had already plopped down where I had just been.
It was a bit of a funny process, but at least she felt my heart.
Has love really changed?
To be honest, our relationship did change a little bit after doing this.The next morning, she actually made pancakes in the shape of fire signs (a little burnt, but full of heart).We went hiking together over the weekend, no cell phones, just each other and laughter along the way.
At that moment I suddenly realized that relationships can really be different if you do the little things with intention.We used to be like strangers living under one roof, but now we feel more like true companions.
Of course, I still think horoscopes are entertaining most of the time and 90% of them may not be accurate.But this time, it reminded me to try things I wouldn’t normally do, and those small changes really made a difference.
Summarize [Aries love horoscope for the month].
If you’re also an Aries and are feeling lost in your relationship, try this month’s advice: take the initiative and do something small and unexpected.It doesn’t need to be complicated, even a simple word or a warm gesture may heat up your relationship.
Don’t forget that love is not a big, sensational event, but tenderness hidden in the details of life.This month, give your other half a small surprise, there may be unexpected harvest oh!