Okay so here’s the deal – I’ve been crushing on this Aries girl for months but kept messing things up. She’d ghost me after two dates max. Last month I decided to actually research and test all those zodiac compatibility tips instead of just winging it. Here’s exactly how it went down.
Starting Point Disaster
First dates always looked like this: I’d pick some fancy French restaurant weeks in advance, plan the whole convo about her job, bring flowers – total snoozefest. She’d text “had fun” then vanish. Found out later Aries women hate predictable stuff. Big oof.
The Experiment Setup
Did three things differently:
- Scrolled Reddit threads where Aries gals rant about bad dates
- Asked my Aries cousin to roast my approach
- Picked ONE tip to test each week
First test: impulsive plans. Texted her Tuesday at 3PM: “Motocross track in 1 hr? Helmets provided”. She showed up in ripped jeans laughing at my shaky wheelies. Progress!
Game Changer Moments
Week two tried the “let her lead” thing. Normally I’d argue about movie picks – this time just said “you choose everything”. She picked:
- Thai place with explosive spice levels (my tongue still burns)
- Arcade battle where she destroyed me at racing games
- Midnight cliffside drive blasting rock music
Kept my mouth shut when she took wrong turns. She later said it was sexy I didn’t “mansplain directions”.
Flirting Fail Turnaround
Biggest surprise? Teasing works. Called her “tiny firecracker” when she got competitive about mini-golf. She fake-punched my arm then kissed me. Total lightbulb moment – they want playful friction, not boring compliments.
Three Week Results
Now we’ve had 7 dates. Learned:
- Never cancel plans – she’ll take it as rejection
- Text back stupid memes immediately not later
- Let her pay sometimes or she feels babied
Downside? My bank account’s crying from all the spontaneous skydiving bookings. But hey she just introduced me to her friends. Wouldn’t change a damn thing.
